Talk about it

It's never easy to be open with someone and to reveal all of your secrets, but when you do, that is when you are truly free to be yourself, without having to chart your next step.  It's a good feeling to know that regardless of your revelations people still want to get to know you, and that you are worth the investment.  It's encouraging and demands increased honesty across the board.  You have to talk about it, get it out, and let it go.  Such is life people!  Be real about your issues and you'll be surprised who's still around when the smoke clears...